“Dr. Bob: With cold and flu season approaching, what symptoms in my child should prompt a visit to the doctor? From Lindsay M.”
Answer:
Lindsay, great question! In fact, this is one of the most common question I get once school starts.
🍂 “Sniffles, Coughs & When to Call” 🍂
Like pumpkin spice lattes and apple picking, fall also brings… the sniffles. As soon as the backpacks are packed and the air turns crisp, kids everywhere seem to come home with the daycare crud, the classroom cough, or the never-ending runny nose. And just when you think they’re finally better—bam!—a new bug rolls in.
So, the million-dollar question is: When should you actually call the doctor?
The never-ending cold. Most colds pack up and leave after a few days. If the cough, congestion, and general miserableness linger past a week, it’s worth checking in—sometimes a sinus or ear infection is hitching a ride.
Nighttime wake-ups. A little restless sleep is normal with a stuffy nose, but if your child wakes up crying in pain—especially at night—think possible ear infection.
Fussiness that won’t quit. Every kid has cranky days, but inconsolable fussiness often means something hurts.
Lethargy or listlessness. If your usually active kiddo only wants to flop on the couch all day, it could signal dehydration, infection, or breathing trouble.
Trouble breathing. This one’s big. Watch for rapid breathing (over 60 breaths a minute at rest), belly or chest retractions (where ribs pull in with each breath), or nasal flaring. If you see these signs, don’t wait—call right away.
Your gut says so. You know your child better than anyone. If something feels off—even without classic “red flags”—trust your instincts. There are three rules every pediatrician must follow: Mom is right. Mom is right. Mom is right. (And yes, Dad too!)
đź’ˇ Bottom Line
As cold and flu season ramps up, keep these signs in your back pocket. And don’t hesitate to call your doctor. Whether it’s a true infection or just reassurance you need, no pediatrician will mind. After all, peace of mind is part of good medicine.
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